I have been troubled lately by my lack of settledness here in Portland which has become ever more apparent with Daniel away. We have become dependent on one another (which is not a bad thing), but it has left us, me especially, with a noticeable absence of company when one of us is gone. I wrote recently about my desire for a real friend (click
here for a refresher), but I have come to the realization that there has been no effort on my part to gain the ready society of others. Part of my solo status stems from my previous method of gaining friends by going to church. Now I must invent a new strategy.
I want to combine my love of cooking with my love of paper crafting into a new hobby: I want to entertain. Already I have two dinner parties and their guest lists in mind, one for Christmas and the other for the new year. I think I have been in a rut of thinking that my life hasn't started yet, that one has to be married and/or have children to participate in the "good life". So often Daniel and I find ourselves going over to other people's houses but we rarely (basically never) have people over to our apartment.
I am going to start with a some ideas from the current issue of Cooking Light and go from there. I will keep you posted on my party planning schemes and maybe it will inspire you to get your party on!
Happy Turkey week! And give Columbus and the Pilgrims a break this year...they really did mean well.
